Instant Messaging

I may have to "pray" over if I want to follow the rules and do this NTRLS 23. I have been adverse to doing any IMs. I do NOT wish to be contacted unless I really want to be found. I sourly assume many other people don't want to be found instantly either. I need to think long and hard about this because my gut says opt out. Keep in mind I don't even have a camera on a cell phone cause I avoid some techno charms 'cause I think I don't see the value and I don't want to be found, to be contacted. Part of me says I'm sorry to be a Luddite. Part of me says we can find more ways to be engaged and yet not connect with people.